About Love

So many stories, so many songs. And we all fall in love at some point of life, some love grows, blossoms and some whines and fades. But we are all capable of loving, and if greatest of the philosophers are to be believed, they say love is the ultimate thing- bigger than money, greater than fame, something that brings happiness in the truest form. We all want to be happy.

I don’t know much. Maybe its just that pursuit of happiness, we fall in love. We fall in love with the same person the whole life, ending up happy or sad, OR better we fall in love again and again. With different persons. Even, with the person one is married to! But we take chances, like a lottery ticket, we try. We fall carelessly in love, hopelessly. We try to tame our game, with all the moves and all we got. But the thing about love is you can’t make someone fall in love with you. You can’t say ‘hey, fall, I’ll catch’. Its an enigma. Complicated like anything. You can love so easy, but making the other person love you back, they simply don’t take orders. You might trick and tame but that’s no more love.

The magnitude of feelings that love serves is immense. Happiness, in love is like monkey with banana_ so much and misery of tragedy is equally amplified. It is a different dimension, where emotions surge like electricity. Completely involuntary. Out of choice, violating the code of free will. Oh, only if falling in love were an option, how many souls would go serene. It is not. I have seen people go, literally, insane, in love. That’s the reaction to love, which I think is somewhat  and slowly adjustable. How we respond to love you and love you too? Very happy, of course! No gurantee its going tom last forever. But feel happy when you can. Being in such love is one happiest thing in the world. What about heart breaks? Sour souls and regrets? My advice is move on. Nothing doing about it. You can’t straighten a twisted relationship. Its like elastic, more the strain, more it hurts when you let go. But you got to let go anyways. So move on, but slow and easy. Heartbreak_ Soul opens only at times such as this, go inside and look at your inside.  In the end, it might not be  a very bad thing at all. Because, they say ‘know thyself’.

Love is immortal. I think in loving truly we feed our souls and two souls that love unite and go to sky where they stay forever. That’s my silly little theory. But I like to think that way. Because, the bigger picture, above schools and colleges, higher up, over cars and bridges, over money and wars and work, there’s blue sky. From there I see people and their feelings. Stray dogs and street cats and their feelings. No one’s too rich or too poor to love. No one is too fat, too ugly, too busy, too lazy to love. Love’s for all. Out of sanity, fall in love. I’m not asking, because eventually you will, if you haven’t already.

Above is a messed up writing, where I fail to stay coherent with what I try to say. But so is love. Come back for more readings J


8 comments on “About Love

  1. priya says:

    Truely said, feelings are amplified. but noone can move on that easy. easier said than done

  2. sanjiv says:

    everybody loves but expression of love is difficult thing. People spend their lifetime without love.

  3. doctorhouse says:

    so the solution for a twisted relationship is not try to untwist it but end it then and there and move on,right???

  4. chirayur says:

    Thank you priya and sanjiv for sharing your views

    and Yes doctorhouse. I think so. One’s stays unhappy in a twisted relationship. by moving on he gives himself a chance of happiness.
    And by twisted we mean more than little misunderstandings and compromises, right?

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  6. sudsa says:

    “No one’s too rich or too poor to love. No one is too fat, too ugly, too busy, too lazy to love. Love’s for all”. i love this line… but i think it’s so hard 2 understand what love is n whether u really love someone..

  7. sudsa says:

    now this is very funny….

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